Catherine (Kittie) Ralston
1793
-1865
Catherine was the sixth child and only
daughter of David Ralston and Mary Reid. She was born April 30, 1793, and raised
in Davidson County, Tennessee. After her
mother’s death, Catherine helped take care of her father’s household
and two younger brothers. She continued
looking after the household after her father’s death in 1831.
Catherine married in Wilson County
on January 11, 1833, Rev John P. Provine (1784–1855).
From The Autobiography of the late Rev.
John Provine:
“In
the year 1830, it pleased God to veil my house in
mourning--the angel of death came and tore from my embrace the consort of my
bosom. This was a great crook in my lot which I endeavored to improve by
learning a lesson of dependence on God alone for comfort. I endeavored daily to
inquire as to His will and my duty. A world of sinners around me were dying for
lack of knowledge, but I felt that the duties I owed to a dependent family
would not admit of my leaving them, especially with no one to look after them.
“With
a religious motive, I trust, I sought and consummated a conjugal relation with
Miss Catharine Ralston, which was in 1833. I now felt myself again at liberty
to enter the harvest field. I enlarged the bounds of my operations and saw, to
the great joy of my heart the pleasure of the Lord prospering. I attended many
camp and protracted meetings, some fifty, some a hundred miles distant from my
home.”
“Three
years had passed away from the time of my second marriage, when God again laid
his afflicting hand upon me.”
From Brief Biographical Sketches of Some of The Early Ministers of The Cumberland
Presbyterian Church
- By Richard Beard, D.D.
John
P. Provine 1784 – 1855, Cumberland Presbyterian
Minister
“In
1836 a small speck appeared on his left temple. It soon developed itself into
an incurable cancer. Every effort was made for its removal, but in vain. It was
the appointed shaft of death. His bodily sufferings were very great. For years
the invincible destroyer was engaged at his unceasing work. Nor was the
afflicted minister free from the buffetings of Satan. Yet God delivered him,
and enabled him, in his own expressive language, ‘while looking back through
this long fight of affliction, to sing of mercy and judgment.’"
His
affliction continued nineteen years. He died July 30, 1855, in his
seventy-second year, with unshaken confidence in those precious truths which he
had often preached, and which had been his support through so long and painful
an affliction. He lies in the same grave-yard with his brother-in-law, Rev.
Thomas Calhoon. It is, on many accounts, a sacred
spot. Mr. Provine had six children--five sons and a
daughter--all of his first family. Two of his sons, says my informant, are in
heaven. Two are ruling elders in the Cumberland Presbyterian Church; one is a
respected minister, Rev. J. C. Provine, of Nashville,
Tennessee.
Catherine
continued to run their Wilson County farm until her death in 1865.